Monday, November 23, 2009

Tips For Being A Good Hostess

Have you ever been to a party where you didn't really know anyone so you sat off to yourself feeling uncomfortable? Now think about a party where you still didn't know anyone but you were introduced to several of the guests and had a wonderful time. This is the difference between a good host and a bad host.

You never want your guests to feel uncomfortable while at an event you are hosting. If you have never hosted a party before you may not know what is expected of the host. Here are some tips to make sure everyone has a great time at your next event.

Great all of your guests personally. Meet them at the door. Thank your guests for coming and offer to take their coats if they have one. If your guest doesn't know may people introduce them to some of the other guests. This will help them feel more relaxed. It is easier to strike up a conversation with a stranger if they have been introduced first. You are breaking the ice for them.

Try to have as much of the party preparation done before your guests arrive. You need to be mingling with the guests and not stuck in the kitchen. As the hostess you are going to set the tone for the party. If you are feeling rushed and stressed your guests will pick up on this and feel uncomfortable.

Keep pets locked up during the party. While some guests may be animal lovers, not all people are. You may have someone with an allergy attending the party. Plus guests are not going to want pet hair on them, or Fido begging for handouts.

Use candles to help set the mood. You don't want to overdue it, but a few candles placed through out the room will help create a warm and inviting atmosphere. Always keep candles out of reach of small hands if children will be present.

The main key to being a good hostess is to make your guests feel at home. Even if something unexpected happens as long as the hostess remains calm everyone else will too.

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